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The Fate of Children
Susanne Hoder
25th September 2004
Yesterday's paper carried news of another terrible suicide bombing in Israel. Today there was a large color picture of grieving relatives. I hope the victims were not young policemen I asked for directions only last week when I was there. Yet somewhere in Jerusalem four parents have suffered unspeakable loss.
Last weekend, Israel's army killed 11 people, including 5 civilians, in the area where this young bomber lived. A statement said her act was in retaliation for these killings, but Americans don't know they took place. During my twelve-day visit, 43 Palestinians were killed and 191 injured. In four years, 3,222 Palestinians, including about 600 children, have been killed, and almost 30,000 injured. I saw many maimed and disfigured people at a YMCA rehabilitation center near Bethlehem. I talked with parents whose older children wet the bed from trauma. More than 18,000 people have lost their homes. There is a massive annihilation of Palestinians under way, and our Congress has just approved $2.6 billion to continue it. We have a right to know.
Nothing can excuse a suicide bombing. But nothing can excuse the silence of our media over Palestinian deaths. Withholding this knowledge is not fair to any Americans, including Jews.
We need to know there is not a single Palestinian child who has not had a family member or neighbor imprisoned or killed, many times in front of their eyes. There are no charges, no trials and no defense. They have seen missiles fired from Apache helicopters into streets filled with civilians, bombs dropped on buildings with people inside, playmates and parents killed by Israeli soldiers. Their parents cannot reach fields and jobs because of closures and endless checkpoints. (I sat on a tractor with farmers who were told they could not enter their fields for ten days while Jews celebrated Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur.) There is no place for teens to gather, no chance for recreation, and often no money to pay for school. (The teacher I stayed with told me girls cry in class because their parents do not have the $10 for tuition.) There are no jobs and nothing for young people to hope for, except a life of humiliation and abuse by those who wield power.
Palestinians were a self-sufficient people with a solid economy before the Israelis began taking their land and water for settlements and destroying their homes and villages and olive trees. This has happened to Christians as well as Muslims. We often hear statements about how Palestinians teach their children to hate Jews. All of the families I met were eager to live alongside Jews, and spoke with admiration of those who had come to help them harvest olives, rebuild destroyed homes, and stand in solidarity with them against Israeli aggression. But the daily reality of these children's lives teaches them more than all the propoganda in the world about the people responsible for their situation.
If ever there was a recipe for producing hate, the Israelis have found it. I waited last week with an Arab friend in a long line at a checkpoint in a car where temperatures hovered around 100 degrees. Many families with children did the same. When our turn finally came, soldiers were belligerent and aggressive toward both of us, with huge guns frequently pointing into the car window. They yelled and demanded documents we were not required to have. It was a frightening experience, but provided one more glimpse into the world of abuse Palestinians experience every day.
Some are told to make their way through fields, proof that these roadblocks are about harrassment rather than security. Others, like one YMCA director, are taken aside and made to wait for hours without cause. Soldiers laugh at them, taunt them and sometimes beckon with their feet, the ultimate sign of disrespect for Arabs. I talked to Christian farmers who had to wait 6 hours at a checkpoint after their truck full of grapes had been searched. There was no reason, other than to intentionally spoil the produce that represented a family's hope.
Below is an important article about Palestinian children. If these children grow up to hate, if they decide that death is better than life, and if they choose to take with them in death those they hold responsible for their lack of hope, it will not be because they learned it in an Arab school. It will be because Israel has found a very effective way of denying a present and a future to Palestinians, as it continues to take their land and resources for its own people.
To protect Israelis, we need to end the system of abuse that endangers them as well as their neighbors. We also need to understand that most Palestinians survive with incredible determination and grace in the face of adversity. They are warm and welcoming to those of any faith who come to learn and share their hospitality. More people need to go and see for themselves. In the meantime, we have to stop sending billions of dollars a year to a government that kills children and hope with impunity. Their future and ours depends on it.
In peace,
Susanne Hoder
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The death and disorientation of the children of Gaza
In their homes, in the street, in UN-run schools, Palestinian youth are not safe from Israeli bullets
Chris McGreal in Khan Yunis
The Guardian, Friday September 17, 2004
http://www.guardian.co.uk/israel/Story/0,2763,1306433,00.html
Raghda Alassar's classmates did not hear the Israeli bullet that tore into the nine-year-old's brain as she wrote an English test. But as a pool of blood spread across her desk and spilled on to the floor, a wall of screams rose from the classroom of the UN elementary school for girls in Khan Yunis.
At that point Raghda was still crying for help. By the time she was hauled into the trauma room of a neighbouring hospital she was silent.
For five crucial days the army blocked Raghda's transfer to an Israeli hospital with the facilities to offer a glimmer of hope. An infection set in.
On Tuesday doctors told her father, Adnad, that she was brain dead. "The bullet entered under her eye and went out the back of her head," Mr Alassar said. "It took them a long time to stop the bleeding, and her heart stopped and they gave her shocks. From that moment she was like a dead body, although she wasn't dead."
"I find it so difficult to believe what happened to my daughter. She was at school, just carrying her notebook, not a gun. What is my daughter - nine years old - guilty of that she has to be shot? It's state terror against the whole population."
In recent weeks the Israelis have again been preoccupied with terrorism, from the murder of 16 people in the Beersheba bus bombings to the slaughter of Russian schoolchildren in Beslan, which received blanket coverage.
During the six months of relative peace for Israelis, until the Beersheba bombings, the army killed more than 400 Palestinians. Most were fighters, but they also included about 40 children under 15. Palestinians say this also is a form of terror.
"We're always listening for the helicopters, listening for the tanks, listening for the bombs," said Khitam abu Shawarib, the only social worker in Rafah refugee camp, on the southern tip of the Gaza Strip.
"I am very sorry when I hear of a Jewish woman or children killed. I think it is wrong and many people here think it is wrong. But what the Jews suffer is nothing to the terror we live with from them. "It takes such a toll on our health, on society, most of all on the children."
Israelis live in fear of random attacks, principally the suicide bombing of buses and cafes, and shootings in the occupied territories. But they are generally safe in their homes and are more likely to be killed in a road accident than by a bomb.
In southern Gaza and parts of the West Bank there is often no sanctuary from the seemingly relentless, indiscriminate Israeli shooting. Israel classifies Gaza Strip towns such as Rafah and Khan Yunis, and Nablus and Jenin in the West Bank, as war zones. That, the army says, justifies the firing of powerful sophisticated weapons into residential areas or the bulldozing of scores of homes each month, ostensibly in search of rarely discovered tunnels for smuggling in weapons.
Barely a night passes in Rafah or Khan Yunis without the machine-gun fire that has shredded hundreds of homes, forcing families to sleep in a single inner room behind bricked up windows or a second wall. Others live in the rubble of their bulldozed houses, perpetually in the firing line from the rarely seen soldiers high in the gun towers.
A fortnight ago 15-year-old Mazen al-Ara was trying to lead his siblings away from tanks and heavy shooting around their house on the edge of the "Philadelphi Road", the highly militarised border at Rafah. The army had partially destroyed the family home months before, but the Aras went on living there because they had no money to move.
Usually they sheltered in an inner room when the shooting began, but that night it was so intense that Mazen said they would all be killed if they stayed. As he led the terrified group into the street, Mazen was caught by a burst of fire. The boy died; doctors took 18 bullets from his body.
A few days earlier 10-year-old Munir al-Daqas left his home in Jabalya refugee camp to visit his grandparents' house five minutes' walk away. Israeli tanks were on the far side of the camp, but no one saw any danger in the heart of Jabalya, around its bustling market, in daylight.
"It must have been a sniper," his mother, Kifah, said. "People told me as I was shopping in the market. I couldn't believe it. Munir was just there with me and now they were saying he was dead." Mrs Daqas unfolded a picture of the semi-naked body of her son in his grave. There is a bullet wound in the chest and another in the groin.
In four years of intifada, the Palestinian Centre for Human Rights says, the army has killed 136 children in Rafah and Khan Yunis, a quarter of all the Palestinian children who have died during the uprising, because of its "indiscriminate shooting, excessive force, a shoot-to-kill policy and the deliberate targeting of children".
The dead in Khan Yunis and Rafah in recent weeks also include two 12-year-old boys, a 15-year-old girl and a 75-year-old man in a wheelchair, Ibrahim Halfalla, who was crushed under the rubble of his own home by an army bulldozer as his wife begged the soldiers not to advance.
The army has not offered an explanation for the killing of Raghda Alassar, but it frequently says that child victims are caught in crossfire during Palestinian attacks on the army or Jewish settlers. There were no such battles when Raghda Alassar and Munir Daqas were hit. Or when a bullet pierced the blind of Sara Zorob's living room and struck the 10-year-old in the chest, killing her instantly.
Commanders in Gaza have admitted in the past that when their soldiers are attacked they are allowed to fire back randomly, risking civilian lives.
There are other young victims, as well. "The children who are physically injured are not the only ones harmed," said Usama Freona, a psychologist at the UN clinic in Rafah. "The levels of violence children are exposed to is horrific. We work in a lot of schools to treat the children. In the one next to Kfar Darom [a Jewish settlement in Gaza], all the children are suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder. Most of them were crying and shaking when they were speaking about their experiences. There is a lot of bedwetting."
Mohammed abu Yusuf is the counsellor at Raghda Alassar's school. "After Raghda was shot," he said, "the children were crying and screaming. Five girls in her class still won't come back to school. We took Raghda's desk away and brought another but none of the students will sit at it."
Raghda Alassar is not the first child shot at the cluster of UN schools in Khan Yunis. Last year an Israeli bullet blinded Huda Darwish, 12, as she sat at her desk.
Mrs Daqas said her other children could not comprehend Munir's death. "Munir's younger brother doesn't understand he is dead. He thought he would come back after the funeral and kept asking why Munir has not come when we've had 'the party' for him. His four-year-old sister asks every day if we can search the market because Munir must be lost," she said.
Mr Freona said the constant violence begets violence. "Look at the games children play. Most of the boys play Arabs and Jews. Many want to play the role of the Jews. They see that the Israeli soldiers are the ones with the guns and they are strong and they see that is the most important thing," he said. "They see guns as the source of power, the solution to dealing with any problem, the way to get what they want." With that has come a collapse in respect for authority.
The image of Mohammed al-Dura, the 12-year-old Gaza boy shot as his father vainly tried to protect him from Israeli gunfire in the first days of the latest intifada, is seared on the Palestinian consciousness. It has come to symbolise what they see as the callous indifference of Israeli forces to the lives of their children. But Mrs Abu Shawarib said it had a further impact on many children, who saw that a father was unable to protect his son.
"The respect for authority is shattered because children see their fathers beaten in front of them," she said. "The authority of the father, who used to just have to utter one word for the child to obey, is shattered. The father looks helpless to protect the child and the child thinks they are alone."
Another result of the perpetual killing was that many children came to expect an early death and to welcome the prospect of becoming a "martyr". "The martyr is in paradise, he has glory here and in the afterlife where it is so much better than life in Rafah," she said. "The children see many people killed, so they come to expect to be killed. This is horrible, that children should accept the possibility of death."
